Hi, I'm Ryan's dad. Ron.
Our family has a story to tell. An amazing story about a young man growing up and going out to live on his own. Ryan's story.
If you know Ryan or our family, then you know that Ryan doesn't YET live on his own. That goal, that story is still being written. As God daily unfolds this story, I will be the teller.
Come back often as we tell the story of Ryan as he proclaims to the world, "I am learning to live on my own!"
Start with the first post, 11/29/10. You will be glad you did.
Thanks, Ron

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Free Services - Can you beat that?

So, what happens after high school? The default answer is to just stay in school.  Federal law allows for a student who is receiving special needs services to "stay in school" until the year of their 21st birthday. Called "Transition Services".  A pretty good deal actually.  So, like all parents we have been asking for 3-4 years, "so, what kind of transition services will Ryan receive?"

Launch the learning curve. It seems that every state/school district has a different answer. And every system has a built-in apology; just like Vandy Football  fans  --"Wait until next year, it will be better!"  The range of quality went from the amazing to the sad.  We found districts with a well-funded magnet campus; complete with customized class work, transportation to area community colleges, job training, job sampling, job coaching, and even job placement.  But, not our district.  We found districts that offered little more than free day-care. But, not our district.  Our school district (opinion alert) offered a semi-happy medium.  Not great, but not awful. 

We discovered that in our district each area high school  coordinates their own program. Once again, some better than others.  Ryan would fill his schedule for five days a week.  That's nice.  Ryan would get transportation.  That's nice.  He would get class room instruction.  That's nice.  He would go to area workplaces (McDonalds, Wal-mart, thrift stores, etc) and "practice" working.  That's weird.  And at some point he could connect  with Vocational Rehab Services and even Vanderbilt's job placement service called Project Opportunity.  Very nice.

We liked the song well enough, but  we discovered one huge scratch in the vinyl.  Ryan would go back to the same high school, the same campus, and the same resource room --- as if he had never graduated.  Free? Yes, but at a huge cost.  This would just devastate  Ryan.  He tells us every day that he is a Senior!  He has no intentions of going back to that campus.  We need help.

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